Not 600 Years Old, but Still….

I’ve recently made a fellow cosplay Mom friend whose sons (like my daughter) precipitated her entry into the milieu.

(Hi Sarah!)

Like me, she is busy making armor and props for her boys, but also like me she chokes on what to cosplay herself.

It’s hard to be a middle-aged lady in a teen-dominated hobby.  Ok, maybe not HARD, but it can certainly make you self conscious.

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That’s definitely more me on the right.

Part of what can drive the self-consiousness can be the convention you’re attending. Before we began this adventure, I had no idea that different conventions could have such widely varied constituencies.

The first we ever attended, Gl!tchcon was a nice mix of the older and younger crowd-

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multi-generational steampunk at Gl!tchcon

At that convention, I remember being impressed by the age spread: from very small anime cosplayers to the elderly lady dressed in the immaculate Imperial Star Wars Uniform.  I felt the same way at Cosplacon-  (A convention where I had a wonderfully fun conversation with an Aliens cosplayer my age with a PERFECT pulse rifle and where cosplay daughter landed in their banner art on the site.)

At those two conventions, I didn’t feel out of place at all and made some friends with whom I still correspond.

Other conventions, though, are different. We tried Visioncon in Branson, which was nice and well-run, but almost exclusively folks my age. There was a whole floor in the hotel which was 21+ (checking IDs off the elevator) and practically no one was in cosplay except the few youth.  That was ok for me, but deadly and boring for cosplay daughter.

The opposite end of the spectrum is A2F: a nearly exclusively under-25 group of happy, energetic teenagers who almost all show up in some amount of costume.  Cosplay is a young person’s game, and A2F is where I really felt out of place.

I had made a new cosplay for the last A2F (and worked hard on it- so much BEADING), and I fully intended to participate in the cosplay competition. But I felt so old, and so out of place, that I have very few photos even of the new elf outfit:

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Cosplay daughter as Hiro Hamada and my newer Melian cosplay.

Because even though elves are immortal- (Galadriel is approximately 600 years old when she leaves middle earth), she doesn’t LOOK 600.

And no. Neither do I.

But I do look 45.  I’m not Cate Blanchett.

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However, I don’t have her hair and make-up team either.

I realize that I probably need to re-evaulate.  I fully support and encourage cosplay daughter to cosplay any character she wants: male, female, old, young, human, non-human, etc.  So what’s my hang-up about age?

I have never had a negative comment from any con-goer of any age, and indeed, at A2F, I had many excitable young people squeal about “how pretty!” the outfit was and take my picture.

So maybe I need to get over it. Be less self-conscious and more conscious of life around me. Have fun, mix with the happy, happy youth and embrace the joy of the “play” part of cosplay.

Sarah and I can cosplay whoever we want.

I think we should.

Bradbury

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5 comments on “Not 600 Years Old, but Still….

  1. Ooh I feel famous! Name checked on your very cool blog 🙂

    Thinking about it, most of the conventions I go to with my boys have a fairly wide age spread in terms of patrons. The cosplayers trend slightly younger but there are still older cosplayers…. I think it’s mainly online in the cosplay forums etc that I REALLY feel my age! I think most of the peeps online are still in school 🙂

    And I saw a thread where some young uns were discussing at what age they would give up. Most who chose an age were specifying mid to late 20s. Yikes. Maybe they will change their mind on that when they actually get there….

    I have decided to actually bite the bullet and go for it with Rocket Racoon as my first cosplay made for myself rather than for my sons. Partly because I really like a challenge!! Also he is an awesome character. And a third reason is that the mischief maker in me looks forward to the confused looks on some of the con going youngsters’ faces when I whip off my racoon head to reveal a 48 year old woman as I bet that wouldn’t be what they were expecting 😀

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  2. And by the way you make a lovely elf, and you don’t look your age at all – so you go right ahead and cosplay whoever you want 🙂 Just popped by here again to wish you a fantastic convention this weekend, I look forward to seeing all the photos – hope the Bioshock costume got finished in time

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